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Monday, October 19, 2009

Learning to be an adult...

Adult. A simple word to say but at this stage there are a lot of big challenge to make sure that our self in good condition. Adult can be said as the person who are fully grown. As we know, the stage of development ages in the life which is starting from a baby then become a childhood. After that, the stage of teenagers take place and followed by an adult and lastly become an old people. So, we look that an adult is at the fourth stage who are categorize as the matured person and can think deeply in the future.Besides, they have a lot of experience about the condition of life.
At the teenagers stage, people said that it is the time for enjoying and make a fun in the life. They feels freely and willing to try something to satisfy themselves. Hence, after become the teenagers, we need learning to be an adult as well as possible. As an adult, he or she has a big responsibility that must be carried. At this stage, most of them are getting married, so that the responsibility will increase such as responsibility as a husband-wife or as a father-mother. Therefore, we need to get ready to carry out all the responsibility in the family. Beside that, to become an adult, we should thinking wisely and think for many times to make any decisionor settle down the problems. We need to think the advantages, disadvantages, and the most important thing is the risks that might be happen when any decision is choosen. Sharing and discussing the problem with our spouse or someone the older person is needed to make sure that we will settle down the problem at the right way.
In addition, as the adult, they become he independent person. Afterfinished the study, they will get the own job and control income of their sallary by themselves. So that, they do not depend the pocket money from their parents anymore. They must try to manage their own money for their own routine expense wisely to avoid overcontrol spend the money.

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